Erica Ortiz needs our prayers

#31 05-28-2008, 10:19 PM

Erica, my mother had cervical cancer over 30 years ago and lived to be 90 years old. I know that the possibility of not having children is overwhelming right now, but remember there are so many alternatives these days. Your health is the most important thing.

The rejection of your mother and her family is their loss, not yours. It sounds like you did everything you could and more than you should have had to.

No matter what your doctor tells you, I would get a second opinion. Just for peace of mind, if for no other reason.

Hang in there, God only gives us as much as we can handle. You will be in my prayers.

Pat "Ma" Green

#32 05-28-2008, 11:24 PM

Erica, my best to you. Stay strong and keep the faith. I am praying for you.

Dave

#33 05-28-2008, 11:37 PM

So sorry to hear you're facing this, Erica. Stay strong!

Ian

#34 05-28-2008, 11:45 PM

We love ya, E! You know you can call on us if you need anything!

#35 05-28-2008, 11:51 PM

Erica,
Although we've never met, we are kindred spirits. Reading your post made me think I was reading my story. They are very similar from being raised by Grandparents, the relationship with my mother and the same cancer.
Mine was 19 years ago. Keep the faith, ask the doctors many questions and take someone with you. I know from experience you are in a fog and I thought of questions - AFTER the fact.
If you have any questions, don't hesitate to contact me.

#36 05-29-2008, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Pat Green

Erica, my mother had cervical cancer over 30 years ago and lived to be 90 years old. I know that the possibility of not having children is overwhelming right now, but remember there are so many alternatives these days. Your health is the most important thing.

The rejection of your mother and her family is their loss, not yours. It sounds like you did everything you could and more than you should have had to.

No matter what your doctor tells you, I would get a second opinion. Just for peace of mind, if for no other reason.

Hang in there, God only gives us as much as we can handle. You will be in my prayers.

Pat "Ma" Green

Sound, sage advice from "Ma".

I would like to echo the sentiment of getting a second opinion.

Sending good vibes your way Erica!!!!

#37 05-29-2008, 02:08 AM

I'm praying for you Erica. Please keep us posted!

#38 05-29-2008, 08:01 AM

Hey Erica,

Lousy news.

Just as a general principal to any serious medical situation: Get a second opinion. You've got a good Doctor s/he'll never be threatened by your doing so. If there's any reluctance or blowback, that's your signal to DEFINITELY get a second opinion.

#2 - Cancer in general (and Cervical Cancer in particular) doesn't have to be a death sentence (Not to patronize you, I'm sure you know more about the specifics of your challenge than any of us keyboard Docs).

#3 - You've always impressed me as a person who "has her s**tuff together". I'm sure you'll manage this well and look back on it as another "blip". Keep your attitude strong! We're all supporting you.

#39 05-29-2008, 08:09 AM

Erica, keep the faith and remain strong. My family and I send out our prayers to you at this time!

#40 05-29-2008, 08:34 AM

Feel free to lean on the Mater, Erica...

Please keep us informed.

#41 05-29-2008, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesse Robinson

... Also seek the closet Cancer Treatment Center of America, these people are the best, and you deserve the best. ...

Dr. Sybilanne Williams is the Reproductive Oncologist at the CTCA in Zion, IL... north of Chicago. She is phenomenal. The entire staff and their approach to CURING cancer are not duplicated by any other cancer center in the country.

After you've gotten your first and 2nd opinion from your local doctors, check out the CTCA before you make any decisions.

Being physically fit, having excellent nutrition, and positve mental attitude are key to going through this battle with the greatest ease and best possible prognosis.

#42 05-29-2008, 10:18 AM

just remember, you have cancer, It doesn't have you!! You will make it through, your determination will not let you stop!

May God bless you, you are in my prayers.

#43 05-29-2008, 10:35 AM

Nothing to say that hasnt been said already. Talk to several specialists and decide whats best for YOU.

#44 05-29-2008, 10:47 AM

Thanks for sharing this with us Erica. It takes alot of trust to 'let go' with such personal information. You are in my thoughts and prayers......we are all with you!

#45 05-29-2008, 11:08 AM

Erica, your a beautiful young woman with a strong future ahead of you. Prayers sent.